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Is co-parenting the right decision for your family?

On Behalf of | Sep 29, 2016 | Child Custody & Visitation |

If you have kids and are going through a divorce in Minnesota, one issue that should take priority is parenting. You may be wondering if co-parenting is the right decision for your family. Although it will take a concentrated effort from you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse to make the transition from a two parent household to one easier for your children, it can be done.

In order for you to better determine if co-parenting is a good idea, you need to have a thorough understanding of what it is and what is expected. According to Psychology Today, co-parenting is an arrangement that helps to establish a safe environment for your kids to reduce the emotional and social effects of divorce on them. You should seek out support from family, friends and professional sources, such as professional counselors and mediators.

You and the other parent must be able to communicate and act responsibly while troubleshooting your issues. You need to create a plan that allows you both to successfully co-parent your kids together without allowing your personal differences to interfere. One goal is for you and your former partner to cater to the emotional well-being of your children by developing and maintaining a healthy relationship with each other.

Children need stability at all times so they can better adapt to all of the changes that occurring, regardless of what is going on between you and their other parent. Try to maintain a safe, nurturing and stable environment in both homes. This can be done with set schedules and regular and healthy communication between all parties that are involved. Set a good example by showing them that even in painful and undesirable conditions, you and their other parent can effectively and cordially work together. By setting a good example for your kids to follow in regards to conflict and resolution, they will improve their cooperation and coping skills.

There is no exact formula to determine if co-parenting is ideal for your situation. However, if both parties are willing to put their children first and work together amicably, co-parenting may be the best option.